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All I hear about is how women want guys who are 6-feet or taller. Can you help? Let me dispel a big dating myth. You may think that short guys struggle with dating, but in truth, women like guys of all shapes and sizes. So, can short guys be attractive? Dating is about connection and giving your best, truest self to another person. The average American woman is five-foot-four, so if you hit that spot or above on the tape measure, you have lots of options.

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And you can also attract girls who are taller than you. A shorter man can give her those same feelings by adding muscle at the gym, carrying himself with confidence, using his voice in a dominant way, or getting great at flirting. In fact, if you Google "short guys with tall girlfriends," you'll find several examples. I once went out for the night and found myself wingmanning with a cool, five-foot-4 guy named Darren. He was phenomenal with women. Not only did he not care about his height; with several girls he met, he led with it. And that kind of confidence is sexy to women of all heights. Am I out of luck? Do women just not want me?

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I kid! One of the biggest myths in dating is that women like bad boys, and are turned off by nice guys. From Russell Brand to Han Solo, many women love the bad boy and his cousin, the cocky jerk. The swagger. The bravado. The Millennium Falcon. Bad boys tend to get girls giggling, twirling their hair, and giving out their numbers.

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But the odds of women swooning over you—a nice guy who likes and respects women—are slim, right? Not so. The truth is, you can absolutely steal a little bad-boy mojo while still being the nice guy you are. I used to volunteer at a residence for blind people. I say please and thank you. I literally! Just pointing out that you can totally be a nice guy and also be great with women. Women are dying to date nice guys. You know who finished way down the list, second to last, at 6 percent?

Then one fateful evening I met a gorgeous, glossy-haired Maxim model who opened my eyes to what women are really looking for. She was complaining about all the narcissistic jerks she meets. Did you catch that last part? Women love a leader. Take charge, but with respect and empathy for her.

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Be a man—and a gentleman—with a plan, and you can date like a bad boy while being a good guy. Approaching anxiety was the biggest problem that I battled back in the day. Wanting to approach but doing nothing… and just staring at her while beating yourself up. My wingman challenged me to approach a table where a cute brunette and her blond friend sat with a muscular guy. At that point, I was still nervous about talking to women, let alone dealing with a potentially pissed-off boyfriend. And this guy was absolutely huge, like a bottle of Muscle Milk made flesh. But I summoned the courage, walked over, sat down in the empty chair, and offered a warm hello. You came right up and talked to us. Do you know what you are? She tilted her head toward a fellow sitting a couple tables away.

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Oh, and the hulking fellow who I was worried about? He was super friendly. I traded numbers with the brunette, who I had nice chemistry with. And that comes from a good place. What DOES feel creepy to women is when a guy wants to approach, yet does nothing except stare, and hover, and… stare some more. But use social acuity. Begin walking toward her within about three seconds of spotting her.